Remember my name – Sunday Scribblings 2013-11-03

Sunday Scribblings

“If you want to win friends, make it a point to remember their names. If you remember my name, you pay me a subtle compliment; you indicate that I have made an impression on you. Remember my name and you add to my feeling of importance.” ~ Dale Carnegie

No matter how hard I’m concentrating on something else, say my name and my attention is all yours. It is my name, intimately connected with my sense of self.

I’m not “the alto at the end of the row.” That may accurately describe my location and the function I’m performing, but it isn’t me. I’m not “the torn rotator cuff” or “the broken ankle in Room 3.” I’m a person, a person with a name.

You are not “the meter reader,” or “the pastor,” or “the guy walking the irish wolfhound.” Those are abstractions, fables.

You are a person, unique and complete, and I will try to remember your name.

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Sigh.

I don’t like to admit failure.

Last year, I signed up for the 2013 Mount TBR Challenge. I picked what seemed to be an easy level: Mont Blanc. 24 books from my To Be Read pile. Since I read a couple of books a week, I thought it would be easy. I picked 24 books I’ve had for years, books I still wanted to read, and figured I’d finish my list by Easter.

Um…no.

Oh, I’ve read dozens of books so far this year, many more than the 24 I said I’d read.

So, why am I declaring it a failure?

My failure is a failure of discipline. Most of the books I’ve read this year were NOT on the list of books I committed to read. Out of the 60 or so books I’ve read since January 1, only six of them were from my Mount TBR list. The other 18 TBR books have been sitting there on the shelf, getting dustier, while I merrily read other old books from my shelves, newly purchased books, books borrowed from friends, library books.

I’m cutting my losses, admitting failure, and — yes — signing up for the 2014 Mount TBR Challenge. I’ll start with the leftovers from this year’s set, the books I didn’t get to because I was busy reading other stuff. And I’ll try to figure out how to avoid delicious distractions and stay on track!

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NaBloPoMo – Begins with planning

I have two concerns about this commitment to daily blogging.

  1. Can I think of enough interesting stuff to write about?
  2. How will I ever find the time?

The usual writer’s panic about Finding Ideas and Meeting Deadlines. Finding ideas is less about finding, actually, than it is about not wasting time searching for the perfect idea.

Yup. The nightmare of Time Management rears its ugly head.

“All time management begins with planning.” ~ from
 Instant Relief: The Encyclopedia of Self-Help
 by Tom Greening & Dick Hobson

How do I manage my writing time?

I discipline myself in several ways

  • I set mini-goals: complete 1 blog post,  write a minimum number of words or pages for my current work project, write for two hours, finish first draft by client deadline.
  • I promise myself rewards: when I meet my current mini-goal, I will go for a walk, or read a for-fun book, or meet a friend for coffee.
  • I join blog challenges.
  • I use an editorial calendar for blog posts.

Last year, I joined a few blog challenges, just to get their writing prompts. I wound up not needing the prompts on most days, but knowing they were there made the process less stressful. It also helped with the time management issue, since I didn’t waste a huge amount of time dithering about the choice of a topic. If I sat down without a clear idea, I immediately turned to the prompts and started writing. It was especially easy with the challenges designed for specific days. If this is Thursday, I’ll write something for Third Sentence Thursdays.

This year, I decided to streamline the process even further. Every day of the week has its own challenge. (Of course, I reserve the right to insert an off-topic passionate rant about whatever catches my attention, even if it doesn’t fit a particular daily challenge.)

National Blog Posting Month (NaBloPoMo)

This is my “umbrella challenge,” patterned after National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo). NaBloPoMo coördinates the blogging efforts of a group of writers who cheer each other on to achieve personal writing goals. While November is the original annual event, there is now a theme for each month year round. The organizer posts theme-related daily prompts, Monday through Friday, as inspiration for writers who don’t have their own topic in mind.

Under the umbrella, I have these daily themes.

Mindful Mondays

Part way through last year’s NaBloPoMo, I stumbled across a book called pay attention: a river of stones. A Buddhist monk and his wife taught a course on mindfulness. As part of their program, students observed one thing carefully each day, and submitted  snippets—”Small Stones”—about their insights. Some wrote poems, others drew a picture or took a photograph, others told a story. At the end of the course, they collected submitted material into a book.

Recently, they couple has opened up their River of Stones program to others who want to learn to focus and be present in the world, without attending a class. The next official Mindful Writing course will be in January 2014. For now, though, I’m declaring my own Mindfulness Mondays to get in practice for the main event.

Teaser Tuesdays

This is one of three reading-related challenges I’m participating in this year, this one hosted by MizB of Should Be Reading. To take part:

  • Grab your current read and open to a random page.
  • Share two “teaser” sentences from somewhere on that page.
  • Avoid spoilers; make sure you don’t ruin the book for others!
  • Give the title & author so that others can add the book to their To Be Read lists if they like your teasers.
  • Share your teaser on the current Tuesday post on the Should Be Reading blog.

Wordless Wednesday

This has become a widespread Internet meme. People post a photograph with no text except the photo credits. Since one of my other personal goals for the year is to improve my skills as a photographer, I’m going to try to get out with my camera at least one day a week, and shoot something awesome.

Third Sentence Thursday

Hosted by Words I Write Crazy, TST has a simple set of rules:

  1. Take the book you are currently reading and open it to a random page.
  2. Share the third full sentence on that page using the pattern
    Title, by author, page#
    “Sentence.”
  3. Review this sentence anyway you want (funny and silly reviews encouraged)
  4. Post a link to your sentence at Words I Write Crazy .

Flashback Fridays

Nothing formal, just encouraging myself to remember stuff. Remember what? Well, anything. I think of it as polishing a memory and hanging it on the wall for friends to appreciate. Sometimes I’ll start with one of the old family photos I’m scanning before they disintegrate. At other times, it will be a childhood memory. Occasionally, it will be an old friend I haven’t seen in years, or a book I’m rereading, or a piece of music I sang 20 years ago.

Mount TBR Saturdays

Mount TBR is the last of my book-related challenges. I signed up this year, but won’t make my goal (see my post from last Saturday, 2013-11-02). Hoping to do better in 2014. Meanwhile, I’ll continue working on my 2013 list and post my progress every Saturday.

Sunday Scribblings

Every Saturday, Megg posts a writing prompt. People write something based on that prompt, and post a link on Megg’s blog. Usually, the prompt resonates with one of the books I’m reading, or another topic I’ve written or read about, and I can feel my mind stretch.

So…that’s my plan.

Wish me luck!

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NaBloPoMo — Again

Time to reboot my blog.

NaBloPoMo November 2013

After a good start last fall, I’ve let things slide. To keep myself in gear, I need a goal, something more specific than “I want to keep writing,” so I’ve signed up for the National Blog Posting Month (NaBloPoMo) November daily blogging challenge again. It was fun last year; I’m hoping that this year it will be fun, too.

To keep it interesting, I’ve decided to include some additional challenges, one for each day of the week.

Ready…set…BLOG!

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Third Sentence Thursday, 2013-01-10

“I wrote that book in order to clear up the muddle in my own mind about innumerable social and political questions, questions I could not keep out of my work, which it distressed me to touch upon in a stupid haphazard way, and which no one, so far as I knew, had handled in a manner to satisfy my needs.”
~ H.G. Wells, in the introduction to “A Modern Utopia”

 

I feel really ambivalent about this book.

I wouldn’t recommend the book to most of my friends. Well’s writing style would bore most modern readers. The stilted dialog, and his very preachy attitude, are very different from the sort of modern science fiction my friends and I read and discuss.

On the other hand, this book really made me think. Well’s vision of an ideal world is so different from mine! He was reacting to the things he disliked about life in 19th c. England, but some of the ‘cures’ he recommends for those problems would fit right in to my vision of Hell. I had fun teasing out <i>why</i> he proposed some of the stranger features of his utopia. As a result, I learned more about conditions in Victorian England than I ever did in history classes.

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